diagnosis? The diagnosis might be of a loved one, a friend, or even yourself. You
are experiencing extremely stressful circumstances, and feelings tend to go
rampant in such moments. People struggle with worry and anxiety to sadness,
hopelessness, depression, anger . . . and
the list goes on and on. Fear becomes a
way of life. Not only are feelings on high alert, but one’s physical reality
has changed. There are many new things to acclimate to, and a new ‘normal’ to
be established. Medicine becomes the routine, uncertainty of the future settles
in, and you hang on to the fragments of life that you know. It is a very uncertain and unsettling time.
I had just graduated high school and was headed to college. I was full of ideas
and ambition, and MS was not a part of that plan. I struggled for many years
with a progression of the MS and lived with a very real fear of extreme
debilitation from the disease. My life described all of the emotions listed
above, plus some. I quickly found myself living by my emotions, tossed back and
forth from the uncertainty of the disease itself.
(like a medical diagnosis), it becomes very easy to live by one’s feelings.
Your body might physically feel different from day to day, and your emotions
certainly change on a whim. Often these coincide. After a while, the emotional
turmoil becomes a comfort, a way of coping. Few tend to challenge someone who
is “sick” for having an over-exaggerated response to situations. Sometimes the
diagnosis itself becomes the justification for it— “I cannot help the way I
respond, it is the ______ (insert disease—MS, for example—here). I am not
responsible for my actions!”
more unsettling then the ever changing unpredictability of emotional upheaval
experienced day to day. The unpredictableness becomes a comfort, in a way. Responses
such as manipulation become automatic responses. When armed with a verifiable medical
diagnosis that assists in an ever-swaying emotional state, how do you respond?
Do medical illnesses have the upper hand? Are we held captive by our emotional
state? What is our responsibility before God for emotional responses in the
midst of medical diagnoses?
the disease is changing the chemical makeup of the brain, causing unbalanced emotional
responses. MRI and other medical tests are able to detect physical brain
damage, and these changes very well may cause unbalanced emotional responses.
However, there are a lot of variables here that are unable to be measured. It
is the land of “what if?” Even in light of these things, does this absolve
these individuals of their attitudes and actions before God?
emotions you experience due to physiological brain damage, you are still responsible
for your response to those
emotions. Emotions are our responses to
our thoughts—when thinking unbiblically we filter our thoughts through our
corrupt thinking patterns, leading to emotional responses which result in sinful
behaviors. These behaviors, unchecked by the Word of God, lead to rampant sin.
This is living by your emotions.
your sin before the Lord. To simply acknowledge guilt before God for sinful
thoughts and emotional responses is not enough, though—you must repent of your
sin and seek to change these patters for the glory of God. Repent of the sins that have become an
integral part of your life–common examples of besetting sins in the life of one
living by their emotions include unbelief, self-focus, self-worship, self-pity,
a lack of self-control, and pride. Do you recognize any of these in yourself?
Begin by identifying the sin and repenting before the Lord.
right, pure, lovely, and the like (Phil. 4). We are also told to take every
thought captive for the obedience of Christ (2 Cor. 10:5). The next time you
are struggling with over-emotional thinking, filter your thoughts through the
Word of God. Determine if your thoughts are true, if they glorify God, are
pleasing to Him, and bring Him honor. Seek God’s face—seek wisdom! James says,
“But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all
generously and without reproach, and it
will be given to him. But he must
ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of
the sea, driven and tossed by the wind” (Jas. 1:5–6). The emotionally unstable
person is much like the one who doubts God, driven and tossed like the surf of
find you need help, seek out a biblical counselor and ask her to help you
identify these sins in your heart. As
you go about this process, search out what God has to say in His Word about
these thoughts and the correct biblical response. The intent is to change the
sinful behavior and replace them with God-honoring thoughts and behaviors.
diagnosis is a part of God’s grand design and plan to conform and mold you into
the image of Jesus Christ. Learning to react in a less emotionally charged
state and think critically, logically and biblically can be hard—but, as a wise
woman once told me, hard simply means hard. It does not mean bad. 2 Peter 1
says we have been given everything we need to be godly in order to live
self-controlled lives. As a child of God, you have been given the ability to
change! Lasting change begins in the heart—it begins with our thoughts!
is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever
is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise,
on these things. The things you have learned and received and heard and
seen in me, practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.
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