This is definitely not an exhaustive list of mistakes we as counselors might make. It is also true that, despite our best efforts, biblical counseling may not produce change, and there can be many factors involved there. It is always a grief to me when a counselee decides to stop coming, or I have to dismiss her because she is not participating or is not motivated to change. But God forbid that the failure would be on my part.
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What kind of behavior were you expecting? What entitles you to have what you expect? What is the reason that the behavior was not brought under discipline before it got to that point? Was everything calm and cool before you “just snapped,” or were there warning signs that you were becoming angry, which you chose to ignore?
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Few people would describe the process of confrontation as a joyful one, but the reconciliation...
Read MoreFrom time to time it seems prudent to remind you what the focus of our ministry. People helping is not so much about the behavioral outcome, although that is part of what we expect to happen. Our methodology is more about the...
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I tell you that in the same way, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than...
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