Category: Sexual Sin

Parents, Teens, and Sex

The dangers of teen sexual activity remains an epidemic that is ignored, and it is literally killing our kids. There are significant dangers that our teen boys and girls are exposing themselves to even with so-called “safe sex” practices. It is a fact that when kids engage in sexual activity they expose themselves to physical harm.

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What Do I Do When She Won’t Listen?

If you determine that she has indeed sinned, show her from God’s Word how she has violated the Scripture. Your words may carry little weight and they cannot cut to the heart as God’s words do (Hebrews 4:12). If she repents you have won your sister. But we know that we are not always able to persuade someone to repent. Sometimes her sin is too important to her; it has become an idol in her life and she may cling to it like a lifesaver. In this case, she may refuse to listen, become angry or unreasonable, and reject what you are saying. If this happens, don’t argue with her or try to persuade her with human arguments or manipulation.

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Ongoing Pain in Post-Adultery Reconciliation

A sad aspect of my ministry, at Reigning Grace Counseling Center, is meeting with the spouse wounded by sexual sin; specifically, adultery. I have found God to be very kind in restoring a majority of the marriages that have suffered the severe trauma of adultery. By His grace, the adulterers have repented and returned to their spouses, and the spouses have forgiven and consented to a course of reconciliation. I have seen both husband and wife as the adulterer, but most of my dealings are with women whose husbands have been unfaithful.

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We are not a licensed counseling agency, nor are we psychologically or medically trained therapists. We offer ‘pastoral’ counseling intended to bring life change through heart change.